Resources
Podcasts
I had the pleasure of being interviewed by
- Most recently, Karl Beckett on tips for boards and directors on how to disagree constructively and limit damage when disputes arise.
- Shelley-Anne Salisbury on why I try to make myself redundant and how mediation is like midwifery
- Nadine Powrie on why I like giving stuff away and getting off the conflict roundabout--Listen here.
If there is anything you'd like more information on, have a look at my various blogs. Or just get in touch--the first exploratory discussion is confidential, no obligation and no cost..
Tools
Pause Tool
This tool helps you control the flight or fight response and think logically.
For more information on the benefits of pausing, read on
Setting Boundaries by Saying No
This tool helps you say no nicely and set boundaries to protect what you value. Boundaries Crossed Star Tool
This tool helps you be a star when boundaries are crossed.
Read about the benefits.
Favourite quotes
Choose one of my e-books
Prefer to watch rather than read? Here are some short videos on different topics.
Conflict First Aid for Parents
A series of bitesize videos for parents of preteens and teens "that difficult age".
Older kids moving out and on? Try this article
Or if it's your elderly parents that are driving you mad, read on here
Turning Complaints to Compliments
In this short (3 minutes) video I tell you about how to turn complaints to compliments.
If you would rather read my article on LinkedIn, click here
What if They Won't Talk about it
This very brief video gives some ideas on what to do if the others involved don't want to talk about the situation.
Click for more information on this